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Once ed in, new guests will be given a tour of the facilities. There are no restrictions on how frequently a guest may visit RKS, but if you'll be attending frequently a membership is more cost-effective. For more detail on the RKS guest policy, you can read the full guest policy. Female friends to just e mail with guests may want to consult our FAQ for hotel information hotels closest to the dungeon.
RKS is neither a sex club, swingers group, nor dating service; don't expect to see or get sex. RKS is a place to meet other kinky people, but it is up to you to be social and encourage friendship-building. If you happen to meet someone through RKS and hit it off, we're happy for you!
But becoming a member makes no guarantees when it comes to finding a relationship. Expect to take some initiative on socializing- someone will show you around when you arrive and some members will introduce themselves.
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But, others will be busy catching up with friends they haven't seen in a while— be prepared to introduce yourself or in Sites for pictures conversation. Hiding in the corner is likely to yield an unsatisfactory experience.
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When you're done playing, you're back to being equal. Do not expect that just because you've played with someone, that you will start dating or that they will go home with you. If that's something you want, talk about it beforehand. Miscommunication and unspoken expectations can lead to a bad experience for everyone involved. Expect people to be, Itunes help chat, people. Just because we're rochester BDSM doesn't mean you must like everyone, or that we're all great.
We're regular people with jobs, families, and other interests. Like any group, our membership is composed of people who are friendly and mean, shy and outgoing, resilient and fragile, easy-going and pompous. What you can expect is for others to show the same respect to you, that we expect of you.
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Similarly, don't expect everyone to be into every aspect of play. Some people won't have your interests, and there may even be some who are bothered by your kinks. Remember that they're allowed their feeling, but expect them to respect your interest as valid too.
This overview covers the major points. Before attending a party, you should review the complete play party rules and scene etiquette. The Board of Directors will discuss and respond with either acceptance or a request for the individual to attend more vetting events before being welcome at a more private event. These requests must be sent 48 hours prior Online dating fish pond the event of interest.
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The inviting party is responsible for their guests; repeatedly bringing poorly chosen, ill-behaving guests may result in loss of inviting privilege.
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Other situations will be considered on a case-by-case basis. Such requests should be sent be sent to the board secretary RochesterKinkSociety. What to Expect Back to the top RKS is neither a rochester club, swingers group, nor dating service; don't expect to see or get sex.
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